Time to sort my situations. Laugh out loud at myself. I am tired of sorting. I’m tired of stuff.
Anyway, there is a “situation” that I do not like. Details aren’t important. The facts are – I can’t change the situation. It’s a downer, not the end of the world, but not good nonetheless. The only relief I can get is two-fold: first and foremost I can concentrate on being grateful, and the second part is that I have to believe that things aren’t working out how I would like right now, because something better is meant to be.
This is nothing short of a leap of faith. Faith in what you ask? I don’t have a clue. I follow my own path of spirituality, and it doesn’t have a name. It doesn’t have any symbols or holy days, it’s just my own faith. It’s not based on anything in particular, except perhaps the unknown.
It has taken me a lifetime to develop my faith, and now I need it and I have it. So whatever it is, I am good with it.
Anyway, this situation is going to try to get the best of me. But I am going to step back away from it, and do things differently. This time I am going to throw my hands to the air and say; “I give. I have done all I can, I’ve done my best. This is out of my control, please take the reins.”
Yep. That’s my BIG plan. The challenges are temporary and I have faith that good will come my way. That’s all I can do and this is what I believe.
Me having faith, who knew?
Tip: Practice acceptance and know that it is different from agreeing.
Inspiration: ” All major religious traditions carry basically the same message, that is love, compassion and forgiveness the important thing is they should be part of our daily lives.”~ Dalai Lama
One-thing one-day: Be kind today, and if you are down pull someone else up.
Baggage is a drag. It is clutter of the soul. One of the most difficult challenges I face is clearing the clutter out of my head and heart. It’s hard work, and I don’t always do a very good job of it.
I keep a running mental list of the way I would like my world to be; my “when” list, my “if” list, and my “dream” list. I could spit it out rapid fire without even taking a breath. I bet you have a list you could rattle off in a minute as well.
But those lists rarely resembles reality. And worse than that, it marginalizes what you have in your life right now. By always thinking the grass is greener, the future is better, we fail to see the greatness of right here and now. I know it all makes sense in words. It’s easy to say and words are cheap. The true challenge, and the most important challenge, is applying what we learn to how we live.
For me it all comes down to clutter, at least that’s my analogy. My initial intention of this “journey to living better with less” was to tackle stuff, less stuff. But now
I believe I’ve learned clutter is systemic. It goes hand in hand with the rest of my life. I can close the closet door and I can’t see the clutter, but all the clutter stuffed inside is still there.
Just like our cluttered emotions, beliefs and overall well being. It’s always there, right inside you, where ever you are. Clutter goes deep into your psyche, at least for me it does. This realization is making my simple journey to minimalism a totally different trip. Who knew?
( someone knew, but not me )
I boiled it down, into four segments. This is where I have to
really seriously declutter and maintain clarity.
Physical stuff: Garage, storage unit, office, boxes, etcetera. This is the easiest one to identify and I believe it leads to clearing out the more difficult areas of your life.
Emotional stuff: Stress, relationships, sorrow, guilt, regrets, fear – we all have some degree of this in our lives – find a method to manage this emotional clutter so that it doesn’t ruin your time here on earth. Very difficult.
Spiritual stuff: Belief system – define your personal beliefs and match your daily actions to that belief – create harmony for yourself.
Mental stuff: Identify what is holding you back from your own life- what do you hear in your head that tells you -” I can’t.” Identify that voice and delete it. This takes constant effort for me.
This is tough and I don’t pretend to know anything about how to accomplish this. What I do know is, I have been to hell and back a few times, and I am not interested in any revisits. No matter what, I have made my choice. I don’t want any clutter of any sort. So I am willing do the work. I am willing to let go and move on.
Tip: Try saying an affirmation: I let go of my past hurt feelings. Life is good and so am I. ( I picked something simple, so I could remember it. )
Inspiration: ” It is not fair to ask of others what you are unwilling to do yourself. ” ~Eleanor Roosevelt
One-day one-thing: Let go of one or more expectations….forever.
I am a visual person at the very core of my being. I am an artist who rarely paints, a photographer who shoots now and then and an active observer who takes everything I see in at once and still I long for more.
What I want to share with you is the site I’ve picked as my home page. Every morning I turn on my computer and I see the first of nine new pages for the day from: Beauty in Everything
I have an enormous monitor, well it’s not that big, but I like to think it is. I expand the view to full screen, click on all nine of the pages listed at the bottom and let them load in additional tabs. I pour myself a cup of coffee, snuggle into my fat squishy leather chair and feed my eyes with some of the most fabulous photos taken by people from all over the world. Yum.
And, so I stay somewhat on topic, I would like to share this link: Benefits of Minimalism from Becoming Minimalist, goof stuff.
Thanks for letting me share and have a great weekend, extra enjoy Sunday.