The 1,2,3 of Words

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I had already set my New’s Resolution to stop swearing, then I realize it was more than that.

It is not only the about words but also about what is behind the words.  An anger or a rage lives there.  Who needs that?  We have all witness someone who gets angry.  It can make us uncomfortable,  it can frighten us and change the mood of an entire experience.

We can easily see what we don’t like about it in others, but many times when we do it, we feel perfectly justified.  We become entitled and self-righteous, “I’m just telling it like it is.”   (again, I am speaking for myself) 

What we are really doing is hurting those around us and ourselves, even if that is not our intention.

All words carry energy.   The old saying “stick and stones” isn’t true. In fact, it is plain false. Even when you are not swearing, but just talking negatively without fore thought or speaking with an “attitude.”- those words cause damage.  Each word is what you are as you speak.  That is what you are contributing to the world, to the greater good.

Is what you say good?

Words to Promote Positive Changes in the World by Jill Lawson- addresses the importance of words in her short and to the point article.  She breaks it down to three items.

1) Avoid idle chat, gossip and words that intend to hurt.

2) Speak your truth.

3) Be a good listener.

Also in The Four Agreements, one of the four agreements is:

Be Impeccable with your Word:  Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the Word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your Word in the direction of truth and love.

So I shall do my best, starting today, even though I said it was a New Year’s resolution.  This will take practice.  I know change is hard and change takes time, but I want to change.  So I have half the battle won already.  Cheers!

Inspiration:  “Whatever words we utter should be chosen with care for people will hear them and be influenced by them for good or ill. ” ~ Buddha

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